“In the past, I lived with negative emotions, but after getting involved with CRN, I changed.” Companionship brings the gentlest power of healing.

When simple tasks like washing hair, taking a walk, and self-care become impossible, Qilin once contemplated suicide. In 2017, at the age of 55, Wu Qilin was diagnosed with chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD). Initially, the condition didn’t have a significant impact on his life. However, as time went on and his condition worsened, Qilin began to experience shortness of breath even while walking. In 2019, it became so severe that he needed hospitalization.

“As my ability to care for myself declined, my mood worsened. There was a moment when I thought it would be better to die. Fortunately, I have accepted this illness now.” Qilin attributes this change to his introduction to the Community Rehabilitation Network (CRN) through the Eastern District Hospital in 2020. Despite being unable to go out, Qilin could still participate in remote online activities.

Volunteers have been accompanying Qilin for over two years. From phone check-ins and online nostalgic activities to physical home visits, Qilin deeply feels the care he receives. “Every time the seasons change, my breathing becomes more difficult. I am grateful for the CRN volunteers who listen to my complaints, accept my negative energy, and constantly encourage me.” Qilin believes that he is gradually becoming more positive.

Not only CRN volunteers, but Qilin’s sister, who is nearing 70 years old, has also been accompanying and taking care of him. Every day, his sister visits to help with household chores and they even participate together in online nostalgic activities organized by Kornhill Centre. As a caregiver, Qilin’s sister can best observe his changes. “These activities give Qilin and I opportunities to share experiences and communicate with others. Even just chatting is a form of spiritual companionship. I’ve noticed that Qilin is less fixated on things and he’s happier.”